Marriage requires commitment and patience to work along side of love to be complete. Marriage requires two people to complete, no matter how hard one person hangs on to prove otherwise. Your husband is no longer your husband spirituality but only husband based upon a single piece of legal paper. A legal claim will not keep love alive nor prevent another from hurting themselves.

The choices you now make must be your own and cannot come from another person or stranger. The choice is yours on how this now plays out, strive for grace rather than locking down into judgement in how things should be held. You can still love a person even if you release them from the marriage. Sometimes the deepest love is to release a person.

You are young and often times a simple practice like Qi-Gong goes a long way to stabilizing and helping a person focus their Third eye.

I know you are looking for direct answers, but this is a slow process so before diving too deep into “what” and “how” this all is: it’s best to ground in a solid practice that extends your awareness in a way that is compatible with the third eye.

You want someone to just Say “Yes You have the power! It’s the third eye!” But it isn’t that simple.

It really all depends on how you develop and that is a longer process spanning years of practice.

For most people initially they feel “This is the third eye!” and will only accept answers that support that feeling. (which supports many third eye teachers with a constant and fresh supply of people trying to validate and prove their ability)

Then only with time to lose their focus and later think… yes it was only a dream.

So I will say it again:

It really all depends on how you decide to develop this and that is a longer process spanning years of practice: if it is truly to be the third eye. Otherwise you had simple visions more along the line of strong dreams to be.

I hope this makes sense.

sincerely
Casey

You know, I always get really sort of, weirder out by these things. There are certain things that happen in my life that I just, no matter what I think, can’t explain.

I’m not some huge meditation guy, nor do I know a lot about these things. So I’ve come to you and this page for help…please

urrm, I feel like I should say a bit about me, I’m 20, a uni student, in a band (woo!)

Now, when i sit around thinking to myself, like right now, I literally feel like I’m different to everyone else. Like there’s something about me, that no one has in the world. By the looks of what others have posted, I now know I’m not the only one.

I want to say some of the things I’ve experienced, and if you could, tell me what these things base from at all.

1. I have moments where I can picture myself in the future, I can’t picture others, but as I said I’m in a band, and I can picture myself on huge stages, with huge crowds. I can picture myself talking to people and can unconsciously imagine what they look like, but if I try to actually think about how they look, I can’t, I find it impossible.

2. I feel like there’s always spirits around me, I just can’t communicate with them. I want to be able to see and talk to them, but I feel like that’s a ridiculous idea?

3. I feel, as if, things are different around me. Like, the way I look at things, perspectives etc

There’s a lot more but I don’t want to bore you.

Is this anything to do with the third eye?
I googled it, and found lots of articles, and youtube videos

I tried one youtube video which was about a meditation technique,
involes putting one hand over the other grasping the index finger and resting the thumb on top of the nail in the right ‘spot’ and saying th-oh-th so that it vibrates and the vibrations feel like they’re right between your eyebrows where the third eye is meant to be.

I did this……but the whole time, I was crying?

aahah not like literally balling my eyes out because I’m upset. I’m not upset at all, hell I’m rather jolly ^_^ but even now, whilst typing this. I can’t stop tears coming out my eyes.

I might as well be balling lol

I just want some advice from someone who knows what they’re on about.

What do these things mean, are they related to the third eye. the whole seeing things that haven’t happened.

I also get these weird surges through my body, I’ve never questioned them, just assumed they were a biological process that’s happened but I simply don’t know the reason, although I’m sure I could find it if I googled things like ” why do i get tingly shivers running through my arms, or why do i get a warm fuzzy sensation behind my ears for no reason?”

so please, Casey, sorry if this is a bit on the ‘rambly’ scale. I’m only young-ish and I’m new to these things, although I do FULLY believe in them.

Tell me what I’m looking for, what signs are there to know it’s working (by working i mean, to know that I’m meditating correctly, and that these feelings are normal).

Also, finally, could you please describe some of the things you’ve ‘seen’ with your third eye?

I only ever get sceptical about these things because whenever someone tries to explain it, they ALWAYS make it sound so dramatic and ‘out-of-this-world’, it really frustrates me, but you seem different, I feel like you can explain it in simpler terms.

Sorry again if this is badly worded, I’m supposed to be doing uni coursework, but I’ve just spent the past 5 hours reading up on this and I just want to know more and understand it better.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and reply, I’m glad there’s people like you

Much loves and stuff
Leo
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Either way. He did what he has done. Either way, he is in transformation and forcing you to change. Either way your life is in motion.

Confronting him with an explanation will only create conflict. So my saying yes he is in Mid life change, won’t change anything in that has happened or how you approach this.

We look for reasons to explain everything. It’s the other way around: Look towards your life and begin living it, in a way you want to be your own, not defined by another person, but in your own actions and strength to be your own person.

And yes he is in Mid life change… but I know this because it’s the reflection of the suffering you write about now.

Do you feel like you are in Mid life Transformation yourself? Probably not. However, for sure you do now see that your life is in crisis at the middle point of living as you clearly outline in your comment. So you have answered your own question for yourself. You are in Mid Life crisis, and it doesn’t matter that it was induced by another person or their own life issues.

What matters is that:

You are experiencing a crisis that impacts the very foundation of your life. You can’t fix this crisis by fixing him or changing the past which will never change.

You can only work with what has unfolded and you control directly, which is your own life: So concentrate on working on your own life. The more you take him out of that picture and remove him as an excuse (since you can’t control him anyways) for the nature of your crisis: the easier it is to move ahead, grow and get yourself firmly on your feet to move beyond the crisis. The teachings here will help.

sincerely
Casey

First lesson: Limit how you ask another to judge you or your own experiences. To do so, is to lose your own strength / initiative to explore your life. Especially if you are given an answer that goes against what you feel is your own truth.

Second lesson: We ask teachers to refine what we see and polish our ability. Since you are not a student of mine, my policy is not to give direct answers for more detailed third eye next steps or to answering something I cannot directly verify. Many third eye experiences or dreams fall into the cannot be verified category, since these experiences are about perception and potential rather than reality.

So from my perspective, I have to treat what you experienced as a dream, since that is the answer that creates for the least problems to answer from.

Third Lesson: Re-read what the third eye is on this page. Apply it to the vision you have and ask yourself, in what manner is it possible to learn from this experience so that it doesn’t create for ungrounded next steps. Patience is required to learn from any dream or experience we might have, Be patient to explore the experiences you have, while being careful on how you use it to leap ahead in your actions.

What matters is how you use this experience to grow from.

In the end inner peace is a personal process, take the time to explore your life.

It is easy to say: take the time to explore kindness and your essence to find inner peace. However in practice, Inner peace is hard to attain because exploring your essence quickly expands out to a hundred smaller lessons that need to get tackled and then refined relative to a person’s life situation. Also many of these smaller steps required to help a person find inner peace are not easy to spot when stuck in problems from outside sources. Then add to the mix that steps required for some people can actually hinder other people. So care must be taken in how to embrace lessons from others.

Follow advice from those who do not judge and who honestly look into your heart, rather than teach literally from a script / scriptures.

Work towards both: Patience and Practice towards living your life in the tone of your own desires and nature. If you do this you will find your own tempo for keeping inner peace a consistence practice in your life.

Likewise as Becky states: take time to find personal worth so you will be willing to invest time into yourself and discover satisfaction in who you are.

Patience in your exploration for inner peace.