In trying to find a solution for all
… you get no solutions at all …
A problem I deal with all the time is when people try to find a single solution to their problems.
In truth a solution is typically a process that occurs over time and represent a series of solutions that improve over time.
OR
the situation requires literally multiple solutions at once
ORbecause multiple people are involved, the perspective of multiple people drives that no single solution can work and you need to implement several ideas at once…
Yet people, insist on single solution ideas or proposals… this simply drives conflict and conflict over time reduces options down to a single option… but then time steps in and multiple solutions often creep back into the picture as the victor learns they must modify their solutions… (then the victor discovers the meaning of irony, or they claim it as part of their original solution … wotever…)
So when thinking about how best to approach any sort of problem: often times consider that multiple solutions can be explored at once.
Lets apply this concept to the culture within the United States right now.
In theory a democracy is a society that embraces the ideal of multiple solutions of many people at once.
You can tell what we have in the United States isn’t a democracy any more. Why? because we as a culture / society are not embracing multiple solutions to the social problems we are facing…
Instead the United States culture drives everything into crisis and crisis always force solutions to be single fast actions that end up creating conflict in the population.
The democracy in United States is failing at the most fundamental level right now and people like Palin and Beck will use that to win and drive deeper spikes into our political hearts…
Just saying
The answer people are looking for isn’t single solution, majic bullet nor conflict… the answer we face are “answer (S)” that many of us can work together towards to improve our life so we can live together. Otherwise we are just facing a rapidly bad game of musical chairs…
I think it’s time to build more chairs…or even better
change the game to be many games at once
Just saying…
Namaste
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I have a friend who used to consider me as his sister. When i spent a lot of time with him, i started getting a feel that he has fallen for me.I got many instances where in it was very clear to me.He started bugging me calling,messaging and asking me to meet him all the time. I have lost affection towards him. Is it a good thing on my part not to talk to him at all? He apologised and he is ready to be the way i want to him to be but still i am not willing to talk to him
Hi Aditi:
I would trust your instincts and not re-establish the friendship. Once a person falls for another, it doesn’t release easily.
Your instincts are you best guide. Trust them.
This isn’t about the way you want him to be. You cannot define another person, rather you can choose who you will be in relationships with.
A relationship is about balance in how both people want it to be. If he acts as you wish him to act, then he undercuts his own feelings and then that will cause him problems that will circle back around to you.
Not all answers are answers that will make everyone happy, some answers are : to move on and continue to explore life.
I am looking for solution to make amends in my life. I am willing, but I need a guidance that can help me.
@Joe: I sent you a direct email to start the process. I work with people in a case by case manner to help them optimize and find the steps that match to their life.
Will talk soon.
Sincerely
Casey