Our times are forcing people to examine failure. Right now, many people feel they have failed against the larger world.
How would a Taoist react to failure?
My reaction against failure is this:
Within a philosophy of acceptance,
In the larger sense there is no failure.
The simple truth is this: we use mistakes and failure to learn, improve, and then grow against in life.
A Taoist constantly evolves in life, which means success and failure are moving targets that change over time. So a Taoist rarely sees a situation as a straight-out failure.
However, when focusing on goals and expectations, a person does set themselves up for both success and failure. Taking a Yin-Yang approach means action can be broken into terms of success and failure.
When making an error, or experiencing a problem: accept the situation and then move to balance it with success.
Go Beyond Failure
Often we have to change the way we hold our values to move around our problems. Often we need to avoid letting despair or depression define us in a manner that undercuts us to think we have failed in life.
It is easy to think you have failed when the social system itself is playing a game designed to make you fail. So go beyond the games, and you can go beyond failure.
Releasing Despair & Fear
Failure often occurs as a result of living in despair, as a result of giving up one’s power and action to despair.
First: despair is an unstable diminishing place of spirit. To act in despair will limit and undercut all your future actions to failure.
This means learning to release despair since despair is dis-empowering.
In part: one way to counteract despair and broken dreams is by living with awareness in the now rather than fearing a future that isn’t here yet. Often a person needs to step ahead with many smaller steps and avoid doing nothing in despair. Many people fail simply because they give up before starting.
Fight the Good Fight
Secondly: Many people experience failure because they fight fights; they don’t need to fight.
Instead: be strong in who you are, be kind in who you are and pick and only choose the fights that matter.
Everyone can do this; it’s part of the Taoist teachings. It requires modesty, so you minimize fights over power, it requires non-judgment, to release other people’s judgment, and in that release conflict.
Don’t Lose Touch to Yourself.
It requires kindness so that you don’t give up your essence but stand strong in it. Kindness means to give to both yourself and others *Equally*.
Success is often completing one’s essence, and failure represents actions that take us further away from our essence. So often we lose track of ourselves, and the roots of failure come from mismeasuring ourselves.
So in confronting the fear of failure: Are you ready to simplify down to truly living your life, rather than acting out to the rules and projections of others? You will fail when trying to live to outside measures but succeed when living against your own essence.
This 90-minute video class will introduce you to meditation. We will go over the practical aspects of setting up your practice.
Casey will teach you how to use the Dragon Fire Meditation technique. He will also start you off by learning the morning meditation practice. Dragon Fire will serve you for a lifetime as you continue to expand and explore other meditation practices. Morning Meditation will give you a framework to incorporate additional meditation techniques into your life.
The class also includes six guided meditations and a further article about working with awareness.