What is Synchronicity
Synchronicity is a term that came into popular use by Swiss psychotherapist Carl Jung.
He experienced “meaningful coincidences” where two or more signs that occurred randomly were also connected by meaning (not by cause) in both his life and during sessions with clients.
Synchronicity Example
A person may dream of a symbol such as a heart ♥ and then receive a card in the mail from their first love the next day with the same heart on it. The coincidence is the appearance of the ♥ in the dream and then again on the card.
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The meaning is derived from the feelings, thoughts, and actions it inspires. The symbol may be a sign or reminder about the heart connection shared. If the person decides to call and reconnect with their first love, this is synchronicity!
Synchronicity is when a coincidence shifts the motion of your life.
Coincidence in action is synchronicity.
Synchronicity as Meaningful Signs
Synchronicity offers us an opportunity to test our choices and find out whether they are good for us. Ultimately, synchronicity is when multiple signs focus our attention on a path.
Synchronicity helps us know if we are on the right track (or not).
Imagine you are on a path in the woods. Typically, you will read the signs you come across. If you see a sign that says, “Danger! Live Crocodiles! Go ahead at your own Risk!”, you may consider turning around (although I’ve been known to keep on down the path).
If you continue along this path, your senses may be heightened, and you may even come across a crocodile. Or, you may avoid danger due to your heightened state. The point is that you’ve been warned and it is your choice whether and how (with awareness) to continue down the path or change course.
Following the Signs
The signs that show up in life can lead us down different paths. A sign may be a person who resembles a person from our past, an animal that shows itself to us during a walk or a quote that you hear over and over in a day. Synchronicity is when we have more than one sign show up with the same meaning.
If we listen, pay attention and follow a sign we may be led to more. If we don’t pay attention, then we may end up being distracted onto other paths and going down a path that may not serve us. Typically, a path connected to synchronicity has a higher potential to serve our whole self – body, heart, and mind.
Following signs means listening for a deeper knowing and a feeling that goes with it. It may be the distinct feeling of flowing with life with ease and acceptance. Or, it may be the feeling that you need to wake up now and get back on track! When I’m not getting any signs…well, it feels more like I’m not living my life fully.
Different signs, over time, tell us different things.
Don’t get stuck on only one sign or synchronicity. I may see a heart shape in the clouds as I’m walking and then meet a person in the park who I have a strong connection with. Through this synchronicity, I learn to trust that heart in the clouds as an affirmation of strong connections. However, there may be other signs that also point towards strong connections.
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Science and Synchronicity
Carl Jung defined synchronicity as “meaningful coincidence”. Many in science view synchronicity as apophenia or the experience of seeing false patterns in random or meaningless data.
Let’s be clear that both synchronicity and apophenia exist.
- The trap of synchronicity is to create connections that are misleading.
- The trap of apophenia is to refuse to accept valid connections that lead to important insights and improved life choices.
How do we tell the difference between synchronicity and false connections?
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An open and relaxed mind is critical for synchronicity. It is easy to force signs into connections that aren’t relevant. We can see many potentials and possible paths ahead of us, yet we walk only one physical path at a time. Deciding which signs are relevant to follow can be overwhelming if our mind is not clear.
With a clear mind, we will simply understand the sign, know the path forward, and step into it. We won’t choose to follow a path out of worry, doubt, or a desire for life to be a specific way.
Because synchronicity works with “what might be” or potential, we must hold it lightly. We are on a current path, yet we have not chosen the future path.
Learning to work with synchronicity is an art. We watch for the signs, take actions, and test them over time.
Benefiting from synchronicity requires both learning how to see the big steps in your life path expansively while using facts and a sense of reason to refine your smaller next steps ahead.
Seeking Signs and Synchronicity
There are infinite possibilities for how synchronicity will come to you. It may come in the form of a song over the radio that helps you shift frustration into courage and motion. Synchronicity may be a cool breeze that catches your attention and reminds you to smile.
While shamanic cultures have included synchronicity as a part of how they navigate life, Carl Jung found a gap in western society when it came to these non-repeatable (hence unscientific) experiences. Below are some tips for recognizing and integrating signs and synchronicity into your life.
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- One of the practices that help us stay connected and follow the signs is this simple 10-minute Piko Piko Light Meditation!
- A clear mind helps everything, including living life with synchronicity. Practices like meditation help keep the mind clear. The less distracted you are with thoughts, worries, and doubts, the more likely you will notice the signs along the way. Sign up for our Audio Meditations!
- To practice noticing signs, ask a question about your life and go for a walk in nature. Repeat the question as you walk and see where your attention is drawn to. What are the first four signs you notice? And, what meaning can you associate with each sign? If the answer isn’t clear, ask the question in a new way and try again. Take our Introduction to Shamanism online course!
- When a sign shows up, follow it. Pay attention and listen for a deeper meaning. Be curious and see if the sign has a significance you can apply to your life. In this way, a sign opens us up to synchronicity.
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- Consider the signs coming to you in your sleeping dreams. Join our Conscious Dreaming online course.
- Take action and let the universe know you are paying attention. Follow through with what feels right. As you take action, look for additional signs you’re on the right track – the magical path of synchronicity.
- Journal about the signs you notice in your life. Keep track of when you see signs, how they feel, and what meaning you derive from them. Over time, you may see patterns in the signs and synchronicities that show up.
- Don’t give up. Onipa’a means persistence in Hawaiian. Remember that seeking synchronicity will bring more magic into your life. Be persistent!
- Join our next online Shamanism Training for a more in-depth experience and additional tools to help you connect to signs and synchronicity.
Bonus truth: Times of great stress, change, or crisis expand the number of synchronicities you will experience. When you are living through a midlife crisis, pregnancy or similar life-changing moment be open to spotting the signs that will help you through your challenge.
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Most of the time, in the modern world, we are following our fate, being ping-ponged around by family, culture, materialism and all sorts of outside influences. We are following distractions, expectations, and obligations rather than signs and synchronicity connected to our higher self.
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I dont know where else to go with this question. But recently for the past week I have been seeing syncronicity’s of hearts, like they would randomly pop up out of nowhere. And I don’t know what they mean, can someone please tell me what it could be?
Aloha! So typically when we see a sign or symbol as a sign over and over we try to pay attention to what we feel when we see it and what thoughts we have. The next time you see a heart what does it make you think of? Is there an action it inspires? Does it remind you of something? This is how you move beyond signs into synchronicity!
Hi, I am interested in meeting a girl I sometimes see and have bit of a crush. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not asking for love. Just an opportunity to get to know her first. I see multiple angel numbers throughout the day everyday. As I write you now it’s 11:11 where I am. No , I am not joking! I haven’t seen her a for weeks so I get a bit dispirited as you’d imagine. But her name is CeCe and about a week ago I was looking for something to watch on TV and a character said ”… Read more »
Aloha Kam! What a wonderful example! Yes, the 11:11 and her name CeCe arising on the TV show and at work are signs – because they are all connected by meaning we’d say they are a meaningful coincidence! Now, it’s up to you to determine how the signs feel? Do you feel positive when you hear her name? Do you feel like reaching out to her or letting her go? What actions are you inspired to take? This would be the synchronicity! Try to follow the energy of what feels right and let us know where your signs lead you!
Hi Julie, Thanks for responding! These surprised me , especially the TV show because I wasn’t watching the show. It was background only but struck a chord of course. As for my feelings, overall surprised but also happy. I was hoping I’d see her about soon but so far not. I’m guessing various Covid lockdowns might be altering things so I might usually of encountered her. I’m hoping soon though! For me, it’s currently 12:12 right now( I’m in Australia), Maybe that will give more energy towards a PROPER meeting? We usually have shared only shy smiles before we get… Read more »
Aloha Kam! You’re so welcome, appreciate your willingness to share your experience! Follow the signs and energy of what feels right, I hope you two will see each other again soon. Keep us posted!
Thank you for the advice and support.
One question which you will get a lot : Generally , at which point do I move away or no longer wait?
I’ve got some good and strong signs and I know the universe and my higher self are always at work. But I understand other factors and I don’t want to be hoping for something still in 18months (as an example).
Thanks Julie.
Best,
Kam
Aloha Kam! Generally, I don’t recommend waiting (passively) – see if you can follow the signs and energy for next steps. Find the next action or message that feels meaningful. If a sign leads you in a different direction then you may choose to follow (but you aren’t waiting). Synchronicity might lead you back to her in the short or long run, however, waiting usually implies a disconnection from the energy and being a prisoner of time. Stay in the flow!
Hi Julie,
I have not seen CeCe around at all. Disappointing but oh well.
How would you interpret multiple Angel Numbers throughout the day?
I often see 8:18, 10:10, 11:11, 12:12, 13:13 , 4:44 and 1:11.
Sometimes there’s variation to these. I don’t know if they’re linked to her and I have looked these all up.
But, since I’m a novice, I don’t know what they’re trying to tell me in conjunction with the earlier mentioned synchronization’s.
Any tips would be appreciated!
Thanks again.
Best,
Kam
Aloha Kam! I’m not a numerologist, however, I’d encourage you to see what the numbers make you think of when they arise, does anything come to mind that may be a next step? Maybe a time to go or a place to be to increase your chances of connecting. What are you doing when you see the numbers? Pay attention to what you feel and think and allow yourself to arrive at a next step.
Hello ! A couple months ago while I was in separation from my love … at the point in the journey where I was beginning to reach the point of acceptance and surrender to the ending of our connection and failed reconciliation attempt. I was actually beginning to feel more at peace … and less pain agony and heartbreak. I started seeing synchronized numbers beyond 11:11. I was seeing 1:11 2:22 4:44 5:55 may have seen 3:33 a time or two. One day I began to feel a surge in pain again, like I regressed somehow back to the pain… Read more »
Aloha Michelle! Yes, this is the power of listening to the signs and following synchronicity! Life takes on a magical quality because we are connected to it! Thanks so much for sharing your experience of synchronicity!
Thank you so much … I know I rambled a bit … I was mainly wondering why I had a knowing of these conversations or connection to them without being present … Did the numbers have anything to do with that and reconciliation … Much love and light to you
Aloha Michelle! Yes, from a shamanic perspective, the numbers are appearing as signs to catch your attention! Because they are happening more than once and are associated with this relationship they’d be considered meaningful coincidences. The synchronicity is how the signs shift your life – the reconciliation.
Hello – great site! I have been seeing numbers 111, 1111 daily since just before meeting this man in September 2019. I also see 222, 333 and occasionally 444. Every-time I see these numbers, I am directly or indirectly thinking of him, which I think is a coincidence. I do like him, our energy is amazing, we have a great time together, I feel like he could be my soul mate or twin flame. We have been together since November, but not in a committed relationship. I can’t figure it out, I know all the signs are there, however, I… Read more »
Aloha @Sandy! Thank you for sharing your sign – sounds like you get repeating numbers as the sign and the meaning behind it is a connection to this man. If it was me, I’d ask for another sign from the universe, your spirit guides and angels. Maybe ask the question “What will I learn in relationship to this man?” or “How does this relationship serve my higher self?”. Then, listen for what you feel, see around you and just know in your bones. What are the first 4 things that catch your attention? Once you have another sign you may… Read more »
Thank you! I will certainly try that. It is something I should do more often; reach out to the spirit guides and angels. After all, they are here to help us.
You’re welcome! May your life be more graceful with synchronicity in it!
Hi. Ive actually been having bad omens appear to me, and I’m supposed to be leaving on a flight to Florida today. I think I am not going. I’ve experienced electrical issues, Ive seen seagulls flying overhead one morning, and I never see seagulls in my area. I’ve been seeing my grandmothers numbers, her birthdate and death date, and one morning I could swear I saw a black shadow near my daughters bed when I was getting ready for work. I feel crazy, but have looked these up and they all relate to death. What do you think?
Aloha @Tee: Thank you for sharing your signs and decision to not travel to Florida today. This is synchronicity! I think it is good to trust your signs, how they feel and take action that makes sense to you. Good job!
Hello. I’ve been seeing 11:11 and 1:11 for past 5 years now everyday constantly. And recently I’ve been seeing the name Morgan everywhere. My ex’s name is Morgan. I still can’t figure out what it all means for me. Do you have any advice? I’m currently married with 3 kids but keep wondering if it has anything to do with my ex. Thank you.
Aloha @Lacee: So, the numbers and the name showing up everywhere could be what we call a meaningful coincidence where two signs occur randomly and are possibly connected by meaning. We’d need to schedule a session with you to talk more to be able to give advice, but generally pay attention to the feelings, thoughts and actions the coincidence inspires. It sounds like the signs are reminding you of your ex. Is there something unresolved, a message, a reminder of the lesson you learned in that relationship? Be curious! Synchronicity is when you take action on the signs showing up.
Hello may I asking about this signs. About 6 months ago, I know new person who means a lot for my life, because I always feel his presence in my life will give big impact for me. I try send him letter once, but he still not reply till this 6 months, also we didn’t communicate, but oddity happened, I can saw his name everywhere, also 11:11, name country his lived, or any word which related with him. Every time I feel desperate and give up for this connection, this signs always show up. And the strangely happened, every time… Read more »
Aloha @gaby: Yes, it sounds like you are receiving lots of signs occurring randomly that are connected by meaning – these are meaningful coincidences. If you feel this person will have a big impact in your life then you may choose to take action based on the coincidences. For example, you may choose to connect with him again or try to send another letter. This would be synchronicity because you’re testing out whether being on a path connected to him will serve the higher good. Remember, it may not. Since the first letter has not been responded to the signs… Read more »