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I ended up in a very shocking situation when my ex-husband suddenly left our marriage when he got into a mid-life crisis. I received an enormous amount of support and clear-sighted advice that made me find my way to continue moving forward in my life. The help I received was absolutely crucial to ending up in a good place.
Living Your Best life
Working With Casey has been a pivotal part of my own personal growth, understanding, and unlocking of my own internal comprehension and abilities. Throughout the 3 years + of studying and working with Casey, his teachings helped me dive deep into personal strife, past paths, and bringing the power back to writing my own personal story rather than simply living in someone else’s story. Additionally, working with him through a spiritual divorce brought caring and compassion back into my relationship and allowed us to separate as equals and friends, ensuring that we never lost sight of our friendship even as we were decoupling. That alone was a powerful part of the process and so important for my own personal growth.
I highly encourage those interested in Taoist practice, self-introspection, and discovery, or simply who feel lost or slightly off-center to dive in and take the journey of studying with Julie and Casey. They are building a beautiful community that is deeply focused on shared understanding, compassion, and furthering the practice of Taoist, shamanic, and truly human studies.
Surviving Through a Divorce
During the most difficult time in my life, Casey kept me afloat. Awash in the emotional agony of my divorce, Casey was forthright, honest, compassionate, and motivating. At times when I felt so lost, Casey’s mantras – his simple truths – cradled me while I struggled. Always available, always supportive, I knew I was not alone.
Casey intuitively knows how to recenter and empower the individual; working on changing and redirecting their karmic narrative. I’m still a work in progress but thanks to Casey and Julie, there has been progress!
Midlife Crisis Marriage Problems
One day, 8 years ago, a day like any other day, my wife for 30 years told me that she was not happy, that she had met someone else, and that she wanted to split and start a new life. I could not believe it, but I knew she was serious about it. Until that moment, I was 110% convinced that she could not be without me. At that precise moment, my entire world collapsed, and my heart got broken in so many pieces. It was impossible for me to accept her leaving. We continue living together for a while, thinking that it was better for our son, but she continued to move ahead in her own life. Then I understood that she was, in reality, looking for herself. I was so desperate; I did not realize how I would be able to continue my life without her because, for me, she was my life.
One day I found an article talking about a similar situation and middle life crisis, which made a lot of sense for me. It was Casey’s. I send him a message explaining to him that I was in a similar situation and would like to talk with him. I was so surprised when just some hours after I received an answer saying that of course, he could. From that moment, Casey’s wisdom, patience, and love guided me to a new world: the real world. The world that our conditioned minds do not want to or cannot see. A world of no judgment, awareness, and love. The three elements that allow us to open our hearts and see with different eyes and to connect with ourselves and others in a completely different way.
It took me several years to accept and release, it was my own time, as Casey used to say, and he was there patiently waiting for me. Three years ago, while I was still finalizing the process, I met Mariana, and we started a long-distance relationship, and we will now be getting married soon. If I had not been able to release, if I had not been able to connect in a different and deeper way, if I had never got to understand what to be aware was, I don’t think I would have even met Mariana.
Thanks so much Casey! For being there for me and others. Thanks for your infinite patience and love.
Marcelo
After My Partner’s Midlife Affair
Five years ago, I was sad, scared and worst of all, had lost myself. I was a new mother and my husband had asked for a separation. I wasn’t sure how I was going to find my way through this situation, but I knew I wanted to do it with grace for myself and my son. Casey and Julie were there for me during my darkest hours. They helped me find my way when life felt out of control and change was all around me. They gave me the strength to not only get through the darkness, but also re-emerge a lighter and truer version of myself. I carry their teachings with me each and every day – knowing they are there should I ever need them gives me peace.
Graceful Divorce
I took the steps I had to, with Casey’s counsel, to navigate through a very difficult, private, and life-transforming process. In the end, we didn’t take on lawyers or even consider mediation. I filed the paperwork myself, we amicably divided up our lives and went our separate ways. We still occasionally talk, but slowly, we are moving further apart – as it should be. Our divorce cost under $400. No lie. I’m at peace now, as to how it played out – it wasn’t easy of course, but with Casey’s guidance, kindness, compassion and non-judgment, I was able to navigate thru one of the most challenging times of my life with more grace than I thought possible.
Midlife Crisis Affair Help
When I look back over the months that I have been working with Casey, I realize that he has played many roles in my life. My teacher, my trusted friend, a father figure, and my mentor – minus all of the judgments, projections, fears, and expectations, that are so often unintentionally placed upon us by those who actually play these roles in our lives. Instead of living up to somebody else’s expectations and beliefs, Casey has taught me to lead. He has shown me how to turn down the background noise in my life, enabling me to make decisions that are true to myself and in keeping with my own values and beliefs. Casey gives you exactly what you need. The right amount of guidance, reassurance, understanding and gentleness. Along with the occasional push and jolt, wrapped in the kindest tough-love, there is. Ensuring that you continue to grow and move towards your goals, as you unravel life’s lessons together. There have been times over these past few months when I have felt particularly uncertain about the direction of specific things in my life. I felt unable to completely trust myself in making certain decisions, and I simply did not know how to ‘fix’ these things from where I stood. Yet despite this, I have felt the greatest sense of relief in knowing that I could instead put my trust in Casey’s experience and wealth of knowledge. And felt great reassurance in knowing that no matter what the outcome, someone very skilled and in tune with me, would always be in my corner.
Through Casey’s guidance, things have consistently changed for the better – just as he said they would, and in ways, I could really not have envisaged. These are the moments that have led to some of the biggest personal breakthroughs I have ever made. There are no words to convey, or any act great enough to express my thanks and gratitude in a way that is comparable to what his teachings and guidance have offered me. I have said before, that although I have met Casey during a very challenging time in my life, on some level I have found myself not wanting the tough times to end. Because if not for this combination, I would not be getting to know myself to this degree, nor would I be able to say goodbye to many of the unhealthy fears and limiting beliefs that I have held onto for decades. I may never have acquired the awareness to go on and recognize my full potential in various aspects of life, or to stand on the peak of a very high mountain from where I could see happiness, trust, and love from again. If you are ready for change, my advice is to work on yourself through Casey. To ‘grow, expand and explore’, as he teaches me. Thank you, Casey – my friend, teacher, and everything else in between.
Midlife Spiritual Divorce
I was devastated when my husband told me out of the blue four years ago that he did not want to be married anymore. He had an irrepressible urge to be free and start a new life but was scared to act on it in case he regretted throwing everything away. We had always been so close, I could not comprehend what was happening. I scoured the internet for an explanation only to discover that he had all the symptoms of a mid-life crisis, even though he was only 35. It was terrifying to read about the anguish it caused, how it ripped couples apart and terrifying that there was absolutely nothing I could do; it was something he had to sort himself.
When, after two and a half years of indecision, he finally decided to leave and end our relationship, I was shattered. Every source I consulted emphasized the partner’s need for space to resolve their crisis but offered no advice as to how I could stand back and give them that space when I was so distressed myself. It was then that I stumbled on a Personal Tao and Casey’s rich teachings on midlife transition. He showed an understanding of the crisis that I could relate to. The idea of a spiritual divorce offered me a gleam of hope and I wrote to Casey asking for help. He showed me how to get through the pain by focusing on myself and my own growth. At first, I was grieving so much it was impossible for me to think of anything but the partner and marriage I had lost. But Casey was patient and gentle and his instructions simple and practical, and with his encouragement, I was gradually able to redirect my attention to my own life.
I came away from every skype session feeling brighter and more hopeful that life would get better. I had so many questions and Casey always had an answer. His tapes on what to do when your partner leaves and what to say when you talk to your partner proved invaluable: not only did they afford me an insight into the situation and offer me practical guidance I could follow, I could listen to them whenever I panicked and calm myself down. I learned that my husband needed to push me away in order to find himself. Knowing this, I was able to keep off the subject of our relationship when we spoke. With the pressure off, our talks became more lighthearted and pleasurable.
For the first eight months, my husband and I only spoke over the phone, mostly at his initiative, and then after a chance meeting, we arranged to meet now and then. After eighteen months apart, my husband feels by and large healed, and we are now getting back together, this time based on our needs instead of expectations. After such a deep crisis and long separation, it feels like a miracle. It was the hardest time of my life. I was so broken, following Casey’s advice was a leap of faith. But Casey’s insights have proved correct and his strategies have worked. Over the past eighteen months, I have learned to be patient and discovered the rewards of letting things unfold over time instead of forcing the situation; I have become less needy and emotionally more self-sufficient; I have explored new activities and rediscovered old interests. Casey has enabled me not only to get through the pain, but to come out on the other side feeling whole, more realistic and in a better position to start again.
I am deeply grateful to Casey for his great wisdom, and wonderfully kind and patient support and encouragement. The few sessions I have had with his wife Julie were similarly insightful and supportive. I feel extremely privileged to have had them both at my side throughout this journey and I sincerely hope that others facing the ordeal of mid-life crisis will not hesitate to call on them for their life-saving and life-changing guidance.
True Happiness After My Midlife Partner Left
More people should know what wonderful work you do.
I have a couple of friends that have asked me how I’ve managed to be strong enough to move forward and be happy so soon after him leaving me. I told them that true happiness lies within yourself and if you need a little help finding it, visit the Personal Tao site.
I’m doing excellent. I remain very good friends with my husband but no longer feel like I need him and believe that I have truly let him go. You were absolutely right as I have grown much more than the person who left me for that very reason.
I have bought your videos and audios on Midlife Transformation and how to deal with it and I watch them daily. They have taken me from crying every day over my husband leaving to knowing that he’s doing what he has to and that it has nothing to do with me. Don’t get me wrong, I still struggle, but I am in a better place about the whole thing.
I’ve done so much reading, have learned a lot, and I’m meditating twice a day. It’s really a wonderful thing. I have bought a new travel trailer and am planning some camping road trips for the summer. I also signed up for motorcycle school and will be buying myself a Harley Davidson soon.
You helped through one of the worst times of my life and got me back on my feet. When I thought I had lost everything and had nowhere to turn, I found Personal Tao and you helped me climb out of a dark hole. For that, I will be forever grateful!
The last time we talked you had me write down the word ‘Explore’ and it has become one of my mantras. I’m excited about what’s ahead for me and know that opening myself up to the universe will allow the universe to bring me everything I need.
As I continue down this path of self-love and discovery I’m sure there will be many questions and I know that you will always be there to help me answer them. Thank you so much for everything you’ve done for me.
Knowledgeable Midlife Coach
Casey is a knowledgeable life coach that can help you work through tough interpersonal relationships at work or at home. He has years of experience as a top engineer so his thinking is very logical. His Taoist teachings will give you the freedom to create your own successful strategies to challenges. His approach is to equip his clients with the necessary tools to do this on their own and live productive healthy lives. I highly recommend Casey as a confidante, business adviser; assist you in developing strategies to achieve your life goals.
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