Changing Society through Personal Growth
People feel as if everything is dire and hopeless in the world today. So many people are stuck doing nothing. The clue why so many people are stuck comes from the word: EVERYTHING.
The biggest problem we face is examining social problems in a larger than life manner.
To feel hopeless comes out from looking at too big of a picture.
It’s impossible to change the big picture all at once.
To think in terms of “everything” is to lock yourself down to inaction. It’s time to change our social perspective, help align each person with what they can socially touch and act against.
The first step to improving society, is personal growth, just growing in your own life.
The process is as follows:
- Kindness. Be aware of your essence, so you don’t work against your own story.
- Non Judgement. Don’t limit oneself from seeing creative opportunities.
- Awareness. So we can grow with others as we connect our actions outwards. (and in reflection receive help from others)
- Grace. Working to the potential of what is happening around us. Using the flow of life around us makes it easier to achieve our actions.
- Modesty. Preventing us from being corrupted and losing our nature.
- Small Active Steps. Small actions can become real. Big steps just get lost to fear and inaction.
- Keep Repeating. This creates an evolving lifestyle as you apply this to your life over and over again and for your entire life, you then always grow to explore and be better.
Now, this also represents a general outline for the process to make a better world. How you apply this, will vary from person to person you help along the way.
When I help people professionally, this is the guiding process I have refined over 16 years to helping people overcome every sort of problem you can imagine. It may sound too idealistic, but these steps flow and work very efficiently. This works! You apply these steps to real-life problems, and you learn, grow against and then resolve the problems. In fact, people will then apply these steps to other parts of life. Once you get it, it’s simple. It takes a year or two to get at a deeper level and find your words to describe the actual actions to others.
When the problems of society are too big for you to fix all at once… Then
Flip it all around.
Work to improving your life in kindness. In small steps making the world a better place simply in how you live.
Currently, modern society is driven by mass market economics. A person is a reflection of the culture they are in, so this mass market approach impacts how people hold their lifestyle. It’s an interesting process to watch. For example: in America where people pride themselves as individuals, yet most people merely live in the trends, not being unique. Millions of individuals but few unique people standing up for their own life. Uniqueness and individuality are very different things it turns out.
Because we are individuals, how we express ourselves will feel unique. This means the difference between uniqueness and individuality is not always easy to show. Since how we express ourselves is very very personal: even within the act of expressing oneself in a trendy sort of way. It’s still your way.
When a person tries to be a Unique Individual, they then discover they are alone; they stand out. To stand out means to be separate. When a person is standing up as an Individual, they can still be part of the Crowd.
People use uniqueness to method resist a mass-market society, but quickly discover they are pushed to the side and seemingly lose their power in trying to be unique.
So a trick is:
Be unique in your style yes: but don’t be afraid to be part of the crowd either. In part and at times: even the unique person needs to blend into society for some support. Remember this blending of being a Unique Individual as you step into a better lifestyle. Be wise enough to use what others create and extend it in as part of your life. This saves energy in not having to create everything on your own; it will give you more time to be unique. Be brave enough to add in your dash of style and modifications.
Procrastinating can be a form of revolution. To resist doing, what isn’t in your heart worth doing.
When society or organizations place unreasonable goals upon you, then shrug society off and then to take that time and use it instead on yourself or others you love.
Of course, it isn’t easy to follow one’s heart within cultures defined by the many. People desperately try to fit in.
If you find yourself lagging, perhaps your heart is asking you to reconnect to your own life again. The only trap is this: don’t do nothing. It’s great to procrastinate against those who hurt or oppress you. However, if you don’t do anything for yourself, you will decay and not be strong enough to later resist any oppression. You still have to grow and take care of yourself and those you love!
Remember the steps to change and improve society require action. Procrastinating can be a form of action, but all too many get trapped into inaction with procrastination.
Stepping Stones of Change
Wishing for change to be:
Leaves a person dreaming.
Planting a seed, starting an action to ripple out:
Leads to growth and new life.
To experience change means starting a process to go beyond where we dream to be or stand. To be brave enough to step out of unchanging comfort.
After examining key events in history, I conclude: true change comes from empowering others to embrace actions based on their nature rather than to impose morality upon others. But also examining history it’s clear you can only help people at certain times. Don’t try to help a person who in their nature is resisting change. Also, be warned trying to help those grasping towards comfort as they will turn to hurt you from their discomfort. Rather than seeing you as a source of help, they will only see you as a source of pain in exposing their problems and discomfort.
Help those who are both already in discomfort and know why they are in discomfort.
While it might feel easiest to reach out to tell others how life should be. That’s a symptom of insecurity within our peace. In fact: imposing rules and a stern helping hand is noise distracting others from hearing their own needs and truth. It’s important to be silent enough to allow others to hear their own heart and see their own problems.
Stepping Stones of Change
A stepping stone of silently accepting oneself.
A stepping stone of release.
A stepping stone into a place,
where old words and habits will not follow us.